Monday, December 23, 2013

Marry Christmas

Often around this time of year everyone is busy and running about with all the commercial implications of keeping up with others anticipations of the holiday, I find myself wondering about the truth to one’s own opinion, is it that I am being an obstructionist or a pragmatist? I guess I am not Shure. I do remember when raising my kids I thought of the wonder and the beauty of it , but truth be told,  after all, this time of year is just boring for me, all the work; just to please others and no real enthusiasm what so ever to comply with the beliefs and others expectations of what I should be doing. I think if my truth is for me , then I would prefer too to be left out of their ideas and what others expect  me to do . As I often do I research many things, I found the idea of Christmas falsely understood Christians belief is it’s Jesus’ birthday to be celebrated, before the 18th century the pagan religion was the only one that celebrated Christmas as the winter solstice so to question the real truth is Christmas Jesus’ birth or is it a celebration of the winter solstice. If Christian’s belief is right why nearly 1800 years was ignored? well I think it’s an excuse  by others too have a reason to celebrate with no real reason and as far as the commercial implications it’s so the wealthy can extract more money from the poor and middle class. To buy their way too fortune it’s a plus for them, the poor and alone people kill themselves and those with family’s over spend they get population control and the republicans get there profits, So in the long run the poor and middle class are manipulated in suppressing themselves because they make believe there smatter than others and vote them into office all the while republican pass bill after bill in many states to oppress the people,
It’s amazing to me how Christmas can be celebrated so widely and with great loyalty ,For  no real regard for others ,this selfish holiday too give to get defies logic, and for those of you who make yourself believe it’s a wonderful time of year “Marry Christmas”


                    "Nothing is more important than our word; it truly is our only value"

Tuesday, June 25, 2013

Perspective About True Rights


Hello  bloggers  am sitting here reading many thoughts of others and events,  it occurred to me, that my life is uneventful and that my time is often squandered with Ideas of intellect trying to suppress my emotional state with your ideas that are  elusive and unimportant  and I ask myself , What is it that one needs to feel important ? How one feels even when ethics and freedom of one self is in question? Or perusing a judgment against another because one feels they have the right to trod upon someone else? I sat in the park today and as I watched and listened I hear some woman say too her friend. “I Love you” and I wonder how she defines her love when in the next moment she is angered because she feels it’s important to tread on her friends personal rights, and during his objection I hear from him. ”your wrong I do love you!” with me sitting there they never considered they were infringing on my rights as I really didn’t go to the park to be subjected to childlike behavior from adults I just wanted to be outside in the shade and air to be alone in my thoughts, I often find people rude, distasteful in there behaviors and ideas and there, I am more important than you, attitudes

So , “Why I ask? ,when some one feels to some importants of a topic or idea would any one go to another with the intention of disturbing another with things that aren’t considered  important  and why must one choose outside there personal belief that they  too are important to themselves as it’s there right to be. So, I don’t choose to engage without permission or implying to others there right to stupidity and of course It’s my opinion that most often or not that I really don’t have the ambition to care , As I consider these questions I would ask further your opinion, but my guess is, your problem is you will never consider your actions as it would relate to another person in whiteness of your inability to be aware of the rights of others so I just thought I would give you this to give a perspective about true rights of someone else .  

Sunday, March 31, 2013

Happy Birthday Stephanie!!

I wrote this for my daughters birthday as a present I hope its enjoyed

The most important person in my life, even better than a wife,
There is no other but you. Beneath this sky of blue
 Ever since Your childhood, I did everything I could
You stole my heart away. As I watched you play

 I fell head over heels, as I learned from your Ideals
 The only thing that made my life worthwhile, my beautiful daughter and your great smile

The pride I have of all the things you do. There is nothing I would undo
You came into my world so tiny and small; I was in awe at the wonder of it all.

 Then you placed your little hand in mine, my heart was yours 'til the end of time.
 There was no place to deny, you put my world on High

 As I watched you through the years, laugh, cry and grow, it’s difficult to know,
That someday I will have to go. But not before I let you know

 I just can't imagine a day without you, there’s nothing I find untrue
 So remember, no matter how old you are or where you may be...

 In some time your father was enchanted by the most beautiful girl
 That the world would ever see.

Saturday, March 30, 2013

Fundamentally

The lack of intelligent realism is rather profound the human race is utterly reckless and lacking the knowledge and comprehension of all civil behaviors , beliefs and progress. The Intelligent of people is often compromised by emotion As It causes a lack of reasoning. To be intelligent isn't in knowing, But more in being aware of your own stupidity. It would seem to me that the less knowing would be aware of their lack of knowledge and begin to learn for them. It's our duty as civilized human beings, to better ourselves for the sake of our children and the human race. So in conclusion; People will not learn after decades of stupidity and history I find it a shame to come this far and still be so without the intellect to make rational decisions.  

                      
"Nothing is more important than our word; it truly is our only value"

“Religion in School?”


The reason this was stopped in schools around the country is that all religious peoples believe that there God does not approve or that there God is the right one and everyone else is wrong. Allowing religion in school is not practical in a country that has many, it’s unrealistic and could endanger the lives of children and should never be allowed by the state. It’s these notions of stupidity. That are not responsible and children are even less responsible. People are ignorant and their unpredictable behavior will allow room for prejudice ,and violence it’s irresponsible and neglectful of us too allow the lives of innocent children because of lazy close minded people who think it’s alright to practice religion in school. The real fact is just that simple so in one question “Would any God of any people allow such carelessness to approve segregating children because of belief that would cause violence and death? “Let me say that our omnipotent parent will not interfere with our decisions. “So wake up and smell what you’re shoveling!” The all-powerful omnipotent one will not help you save the lives of anyone and never has it is up too us to make decisions that save the lives of the many and the innocent.
And as I have said before in a previous article called
 “Fundamentally “  The lack of intelligent realism is rather profound the human race is utterly reckless and lacking the knowledge and comprehension of all civil behaviors , beliefs and progress. The Intelligent of people is often compromised by emotion As It causes a lack of reasoning. To be intelligent isn't in knowing, But more in being aware of your own stupidity. It would seem to me that the less knowing would be aware of their lack of knowledge and begin to learn for them. It's our duty as civilized human beings, to better ourselves for the sake of our children and the human race. So in conclusion; People will not learn after decades of stupidity and history I find it a shame to come this far and still be so without the intellect to make rational decisions.  

"Nothing is more important than our word; it truly is our only value"
 
 

First Time

Since the first time we met, I haven’t been able to forget
And lately I seem to find, that you're always on my mind.
I feel so happy when you’re around, and I thank God that you I found.
At first I thought of you as a friend, My feelings there didn't end.
I don’t know what you do. I am here waiting for you
When I see you smile, it makes my life worthwhile.
And since the very start, you have been in my heart.
I've never felt this way before, I can’t close the door
I'm so glad that we did meet, for now my life is complete.
You're what they meant, by heaven sent.

Friday, March 29, 2013

My Mask

I wrote this about 3 years ago for me .
A shadow cast upon the ground, here I stand looking around,
My being is bound by my will, having no one for comfort, and yet still,
In the beginning being plain, saved me from the pain,
So I made a mask that always smiled; to hide me from life's long miles.
Deep and empty haunted by me, missing a part I can't see.
No one can hear the cries; I designed my mask to hide these lies.
 All the smiles are my tears, all the comfort shown are my fears.
Everything you think you see, Wasn't everything there is to me.
So every day I slowly die, behind my mask of lies
I shall go on smiling for ever more, for this mask is my chore
Hoping a day to feel without the stare; wishing my soul would bare,
She hated her life before I came; I was neither special nor plain,
She showed me laughter and her tears, she showed her joy, and her fears,
I showed her freedom, I showed her care, I showed her that I would be there.
How she laughed, how she cried, how she jumped with laughter inside.
At the end there was no light, for the truth was just out of sight.
Oh how she wished I was real, she has no idea of how I feel,
So she closed the book, never again to take a look.
Behind my mask I shall remain, forever more neither special nor plain

Thought of You Today

Every day I had a fear, giving my heart to someone dear
Then it happened unforeseen, A very special being
Scared of what you would bring, awaiting every word is as spring
Very nervous to hear your words, my heart flutters like wings of birds
I am sure what I want to be, and wonder what you may see in me
A Lady sent from god above, here you are undreamed of
If you’re willing to take my hand, I will be strong and make a stand 
For every word upon your lips, I find myself in your grip
Sadness comes from inside, I feel as though I must run and hide
Then your name I hear, and subsides the fear
I have a hope for a chance, of your heart just a glance 
The beauty you’ve shown, Is more than I‘ve known
If your heart is as strong, I will sing you this song 
The waiting on your every word, this must sound absurd 
And yet it’s true, I wish to spend every moment with you.
If there is a way, I would never miss you say,
I thought of you today.

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

Truth Must Be Known

Hello bloggers, as usual I was wasting my time reading the comments on face book and found myself implementing in thought a single word, I give you this word of caution that aroused my suspicions mind incontrovertible this means Impossible to dispute; unquestionable, undeniable, “How is it that those of you cannot see the facts and yet voice an opinion about things with such denial?” We as a people must give the republican agenda a good look. Take a stand on the truth, for the rights of all the human species. With their agenda of discriminating against woman’s choice subjected and questioned as if they were a sub spices of man with their attacks, all the while minimizing woman’s rights with comments of legitimate rape, there  ideas of assaulting labor Unions that protect the working men and women and denying your right to vote. You with all your comments of pro work, prolife, Obama suppressors with antidotes on gun rights, its clear you can’t see the facts or ideas of your oppressors. You who are so feared with ignorance and morality that truth can’t steed your lips while teaching as oppressors of our liberties. Vote for your dogs of war, Stand fast and do nothing but ideally suggest your lazy minds are right. Further humiliating your selves alongside your republican self-important morality, in suggesting the wealthy have a right to enslave us.

The shame is those of you that can understand me, know what I am saying and thou voicing my opinion I believe I am well thought the ones that don’t, can’t and so my thought is I just wasted my time again without great surprise .I do believe in the Bill Of Rights and fear that if we the people don’t take our opinions for public view teaching the ignorant the truth we are as guilty as our republican would be oppressors. There for I would ask you who agree with me to share or repost this statement in your support.



                      "Nothing is more important than our word; it truly is our only value"

Saturday, March 9, 2013

Believing in one self

After some time reading I was not surprised by the news or the comments as to the negativity or the state of our union one single thought oppressed me and so I wanted to share it. Believing in one self would be considered to be a thought of rationality. I have discovered by observing others without great surprise that there's no regard toward others, unless there’s a reward to one self .So in conclusion believing in one self-thou important. Arrogance must then fallow, the human fallacy of uncontrolled emotion leads with disdain there for the unenlightened are compromised in believing to be self-important what I refer to as the ; "Me Syndrome". Equality must go both ways. Can't expect to have it unless you’re willing give it.
  
                  "Nothing is more important than our word; it truly is our only value"

Friday, March 1, 2013

Authoritarianism


Well here we are, going back to the feudal authoritarianism and religious conservatism that dominated the middle Ages. Like in 1965 when the United States first tried to oppress racial voting rights before  women were protected from violence and  woman’s choice being subjected and questioned as if they were a sub spices of man and labor Unions that protected the working men and women, the GOP Judaists of the 20th century oppressing our freedoms while others  who  are unable to see the facts around them with no concern that the lives lost through the past 200 yrs. of fighting for our freedom, that’s  now  being  ignored  while lazy close minded  unintelligent  crybabies complain that they are right and stand up for what they think they believe in while voting  for  their  dogs  of war all the while allowing themselves to be oppressed for no reason other than just being plain lazy do nothing and it will go away attitudes that destroyed Rome and it will consume all of us as a plague destroys. You will parish. I say people of Michigan leave that state leave and show your oppressors they can have their communist dictator .and that which we the people left behind 200 yrs. ago. It’s time to put your boot up the government’s …  and stand for something , believe in just one thing , commonly understood as inalienable fundamental rights to which a person is inherently entitled simply because she or he is a human being  it’s our choice to be oppressed or not . There is a time when it’s important to stop your petty bickering and placing blame on others this is your choice you allowed these atrocities your traitors to The people of a great nation .By voting for your political embarrassing republican outcasts that show the world how democracy does not work further humiliating your selves and those of us who can see it. In the eyes of other countries we are a lowly cowered people permitting the republicans to further humiliate us in the world jeopardizing our lives how long before this great United States of America will be attacked either by public opinion or war. We were the greatest Nation in the world and in less than two years because of prejudice we are staring disaster in the face. We The People, Remember that? Constitution of the United States of America    I will stand on my fundamental principles a believer in truth, justice for all human kind. What of you?

                               "Nothing is more important than our word; it truly is our only value"

Monday, February 25, 2013

Objectivism


After reading my brothers statement I considered a trivial point of thought that I would share with you readers as I often do when I am inspired.  A word to the rational logic thinkers and the one’s of you that believe in your selves the ethics of man that I am to have been subjected to in my life and all of you that can’t seem to in any conclusion of your abilities to learn, I find that to believe one to be right about anything is an opinion without a value is a lie that one should have been for seen. As I believe those of you who ware blinders and subject those of us who do understand and have the ability to learn and  see the facts , We who live by the judgment of our own minds, willing to stand alone against tradition and popular opinion. I would urge everyone to consider the things in your lives and that which is happening around us. With political schemes that influence err rational philosophies that hold the benefactor as confused and without any real effort toward others that would be the so called the right thing. My word for today is objectivism the thought that supports the ethics of self-sacrifice and renunciation. I suggest that men to hold themselves and their lives as their highest values, and to live by the code of the free individual self-reliance, integrity, rationality, productive effort. To the power of man's mind, is defending reason and science against every form of irrationalism. It provides an intellectual foundation for objective standards of truth and value. I stand upholding the use of reason to transform nature and create wealth, others like the businessman and the banker, no less than the philosopher and artist, as creators and as benefactors of mankind. I would believe that individual rights, which protect the sovereignty of the individual as an end in himself; and of capitalism, which is the only social system that allows people to live together peaceably, by voluntary trade, as independent equals. As for the religion of man I will state that our great omnipotent leader has no reason to believe that we are anything other than minuscule those that do believe in the good book should reconsider that our great leader is less concerned with us then all the great things he has optimisticly has in holding , that the universe is open to human achievement and happiness and that each person has within him the ability to live a rich, fulfilling, independent life. My idealistic Ideas that I share with you I would presume to give you some knowledge so as to inspire others to see truth .

                                        "Nothing is more important than our word; it truly is our only value"

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Humanology

A strange thought "What is it to be human? “To give me perspective I decided to look it up and see what the dictionary would halve too say, all thou the definition was somewhat complex I believe my conclusion is a better understanding. In the scientific sense, to be human means to be a complex biological organism belonging to the species of Homo sapiens, a member of the great ape family. It means to be capable of logical reasoning, abstract thought, learning and using languages and possessing self-awareness.  To be human means you are capable of culture, complex problem solving, creating advanced technologies and developing complex social institutions.  For others, man is defined by the radical absence of any such essence, and is instead a purely material being with purely material concerns. For some people, what it means to be human is inter twined with other questions about the nature of transcendent reality as described by a particular religious doctrine. For such people, being human can mean being a manifestation of a higher power. In the Judeo-Christian tradition, Could mean being an imperfect creature made in the image of God, and what it means to be human is to be a servant of God. For others, such as Buddhists, it means suffering; one is human only until one attains enlightenment, at which time one returns to an oneness with transcendent reality. Of course, other definitions abound, but in general they have in common a definition of human framed by an understanding of the larger realities that stand over and above him. For some, being a human means that one is social and political creature. Or that human are defined by their social interactions, and in extreme versions of this view, being human means being a manifestation of one's larger social and cultural environment. Human beings are inherently political creatures because they attempt to further their own interests even in relation to their social group. Existentialism to be human means simply to be this self-defining creature, to be whatever one decides one wants to become. After spending some thought my conclusion is humankind is a self-aware Homo sapiens that’s an emotional, self-serving, self-principled being capable of abstract thought and logical reasoning. My guess is that no amount of truth could ever be enough to enlighten any human kind that it would conclude that someone else may be more important. That to which one finds they haven’t the value of the human race only to be second in the abstract ideology of a higher being. After seeing and trying to enlighten others I find that I have wasted my time therefore proving my point too myself I too fit as a human kind although I took it upon myself to teach others that too be human meant that we work toward the future of humankind by informing others that to be human is to do the best we can because we are the one doing it, by using all the tools nature gave us to use and as in everything too much is sometimes too much. Take what’s happening now in our great country no one is really paying attention and having an idea of their self-important ideologies haven't a clue of the facts that fixing the problems isn't about them. In the words of my mother to each their own, so I guess the term Humanology is just that.

                              "Nothing is more important than our word; it truly is our only value" 

Monday, February 4, 2013

Repression

Hello everyone as you know by now I spend much time alone in my thoughts and as usual I find myself by questioning my own thoughts, I always believed to be aware of one self we must know one  self so to that end  the word that jumped into my head as usual on Facebook and by watching the news, The word means  Memory inhibition, Recall or  Political repression, the oppression or persecution of an individual or group for political reasons , Social repression,  Psychological repression,  the psychological act of excluding desires and impulses from one's consciousness,  The act of repressing or the state of being repressed. The also applies to Psychology the unconscious exclusion of painful impulses, desires, or fears from the conscious mind Repression involves placing uncomfortable thoughts in relatively inaccessible areas of the subconscious mind. Thus when things occur that we are unable to cope with now, we push them away, either planning to deal with them at another time or hoping that they will fade away on their own accord. The level of 'forgetting' in repression can vary from a temporary abolition of uncomfortable thoughts to a high level of amnesia, where events that caused the anxiety are buried very deep. Repressed memories do not disappear. They can have an accumulative effect and reappear as anxiety or dysfunctional behavior. A high level of repression can cause a high level of anxiety or dysfunction, although this may also be caused by the repression of one particularly traumatic incident. Repressed memories may appear through subconscious means and in altered forms, such as dreams or slips of the tongue Repression sometimes called motivated forgetting is a primary ego defense mechanism since the other ego mechanisms use it in tandem with other methods. This defense is often called repression which is an unconscious awareness. When we deliberately and consciously try to push away thoughts, this is suppression. In Freudian terminology, repression is the restraining of a cachexia by an anti-cachexia. It is not all bad. If all uncomfortable memories were easily brought to mind we would be faced with a non-stop pain of reliving them. Of some psychoanalysis, was to bring repressed memories, fears and thoughts back to the conscious level of awareness. When a person is being defensive in some way, think about the repressions that may be at the root of their problem. Also listen for speech errors and other signals from the subconscious.  You can even start a conversation about recent weird dreams and then listen for further symbols, though be careful with this, as dreams can be very symbolic. It can help a person recover from the discomfort and dysfunction that repression brings by digging out the original memory. But you should be very careful with this, of course - done wrong, it may only cause more pain. If you have caused a person stress and they feel unable to respond, you may find that they act as if nothing had happened. This is a surprisingly common attribute of persuasive situations. It can gain compliance in the shorter term, but can build up problems for later.  You may attribute feeling to someone of unjust or cruel exercise of authority or power another problem may be something that oppresses especially in being an unjust or excessive exercise of power or a sense of being weighed down in body or mind. Another type is Social oppression the systematic, socially supported mistreatment and exploitation of a group, category, or team of people by anyone. And of course there the Institutionalized oppression this occurs when established laws, customs, and practices systematically reflect and produce inequities based on one’s membership in targeted social identity groups.  An  oppressive consequences accrue to institutional laws, customs, or practices, the institution is oppressive whether or not the individuals maintaining those practices have oppressive intentions then there’s Systematic oppression this  term of oppression is such instances to refer to the subordination of a given group or social category by unjust use of force, authority, or societal norms in order to achieve a goal in sociology and psychology, internalized oppression is the manner in which members of an oppressed group come to internalize the oppressive attitudes of others toward themselves and those like them. For example, sometimes members of marginalized groups hold an oppressive view toward their own group, or start to believe in negative stereotypes. Examples include internalized racism, internalized sexism, and internalized homophobia. This is what I refer as Republican goals of their forward thinking I believe the fact s will out way any of your doubts all you need to do is watch the news. I feel as thou I am the only one that can enlighten you and press that WE THE PEOPLE need to start focusing on the facts Gun rights are not in question no one is losing their second amendment rights the idea of removing weapons of war of the street is The fact that the violence against woman’s act is being denied again I am concerned for it. Or how about the fact that unions are being disregarded as necessary, If unions didn’t come about business owners would not care if you got sick or that you earned a right and fair wage. And there’s the woman’s right of choice act. Very important to our society, emigration law also important, our ancestors were them The Constitution of the United States gives them the right to be here and to become a citizen Of the United States .Yes reform is necessary we all need to do a part so quit complaining and do something about it I would insist do the right thing say the just things and be unbiased and fair let people know the facts pick a side of truth and be intelligent about it. KNOW YOUR FACTS.

                               "Nothing is more important than our word; it truly is our only value"

Sunday, February 3, 2013

Children of Tomorrow


As I was looking online I was reading many articles on new government policy! Something is here in our country and I just can’t understand how we as a people can allow these atrocities’ to continue. One of them is the new Bill for woman rights;   I believe in the bill of rights and, I find they are for everyone, if we are an enlightened people with our thought s and technologies’. “Why is it that The Republicans and their followers have been unrelenting in their attempts of cutting services for women in America especially the poor women of America?” The Republican’s attacks on teachers unions are just another attempt at union busting. Statistics from 2010 show that 81.8 % of elementary school teachers, 57% of secondary teachers, and 92% of kindergarten and pre-school teachers are women.  I have heard it said that teachers are just glorified baby-sitters who deserve minimum wage and no benefits as if they are teenage girls earning spending money. There has not been the same level of anti-union sentiment aimed at traditional male-dominated professions like law enforcement (13% female), firefighters (3.6% female), or construction workers at 2.6%.  “Is it our legacy to believe and teach our children the lack of respect of woman?” It does not seem to me too be any other reason other than women are not valued the way men are. In Congress and state legislatures around the country, Republicans consistently Vote to perpetuate gender inequality in pay, health insurance, and health services .Because they are still laboring under the bible’s directive that women are not equal to men. I also see that gender inequality is rampant in this country and no profession is immune. There is no other reasonable explanation and in many conservative circles women are expected to stay at home, give birth, whether by choice or rape clean the house, raise the monsters that are going to run our country. It begs the question, “Why would any woman ever vote for a Republican?” It is somewhat understandable that in a third world country and Islamic culture’s women are treated as possessions for men. It is not understandable why in the greatest country in the world women earn 25% less than a man doing the same job. There are, of course, economic considerations at play and corporations will do anything to increase their profit margin by paying women less than men. Many older conservative Americans who yearn to return to 1950 still believe that only men should work outside of the home. And others continue to do everything in their legislative power to return women to the role of homemaker and little else.  Women have done everything they have been asked to, and according to statistics, they are losing the battle for equality on every front. The Republicans continue to lead the attacks on equal rights for women, and it is a mystery why women support them. I believe it is time for men to stand with women and demand that WE THE PEOPLE be given the same respect and fairness that every man enjoys. Americans have much to be ashamed of, but mistreating our women and treating them like third-class citizens has to be at the top of the shame list, and it all starts with Republicans, there followers  and you conservative Christians who cling to bible mythology and war mongering ideology You  Hypocrites who believe that  women are less than men. I am shamed by you that we live in this way I am appalled that you decide you are right.

                            "Nothing is more important than our word; it truly is our only value"

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

“Who are you?”

Hello everyone, Today I was looking around on the internet and a thought of what I was seeing is so hard to believe, everyone seems to be pre occupied and detracted with things like Gun rights ,prolife and gay rights ecological impact and those things as social security ,medical insurance, Medicaid programs public assistance ,mental health ,and what animal out there is being abused ,and home violence, job loss  and Our military men and woman , schools and education. And other things around the world people are voicing there opinion loudly preaching about these things and other things that have to Do with and nothing to do with them, But there is something  going on that nobody’s talking about that needs everyone to take a stand and defend . You voice your opinion because you believe you have a right to.One who disregards and /or infringes upon another’s belief or rights physically, emotionally or disturbs rudely or improperly to treat others irreverently or disrespectfully and to treat with dishonor. Your opinion is what you think is right ,is all about you and what you want or what you don’t want all your ideas are inducing self-serving opinion is nothing more than all about you the fact you may feel  invisible or unimportant, you believe by making noise and judging others that you may be noticed. So you can make believe your important in some small way while you violate others freedoms that would make them happy  so you go about trotting on others with your self- illusion your  ideas of what you believe to be important . “Who are you?”  That you believe you have the right to dictate to others that which violates their rights of humanity again I ask “Who are you?”  That you feel you have a right to trod upon another’s’ happiness and freedoms. Again I ask “Who are you?” That you believe you know what’s best despite this truth. I am appalled, disappointed and sickened by the people who do these things to another for the Ideas of what they think is best. And then without surprise I see that now people are not even paying attention when the most important thing they believe in  is now being threatened there right to vote in a fair majority ,already several states have been rezoned by republicans to manipulate the outcome of majority of the senate and the house .This will allow them to be able to elect a president that they want and the peoples vote will never again be a majority .We will have lost our freedom and you thought you knew best .I for one believe we the people need to see and protect what we have no longer can you allow your petty opinions to divide us the people. Now that you see what’s at stake Again I ask “Who are you?”

                            "Nothing is more important than our word, it truly is our only value"

Monday, January 21, 2013

Conscience


Hello everyone I was doing some messaging on Facebook and in the middle of the conversation
A single thought took my attention at the time I believed it to be an easy topic, what I learned was its rather intuitive .It is an aptitude, faculty, intuition or judgment of the intellect that distinguishes right from wrong. It also concludes a moral judgment and may derive from values principles and rules. In psychological terms conscience is often described as leading to feelings of remorse when a human commits actions that go against his/her moral values and to feelings of rectitude or integrity when actions conform to such norms. The extent to which conscience informs moral judgment before an action and whether such moral judgments are or should be based in reason has occasioned debate through much of history.
Religious views of conscience usually see it as linked to a morality inherent in all humans, to a beneficent universe and/or to divinity. The diverse ritualistic, mythical, doctrinal, legal, institutional and material features of religion may not necessarily cohere with experiential, emotive, spiritual or contemplative considerations about the origin and operation of conscience. Common secular or scientific views regard the capacity for conscience as probably genetically determined, with its subject probably learned or imprinted (like language) as part of a culture.
So in thought one could conclude that conscience can have a thought to cause feelings that  inhibit one from doing what’s considered bad .Commonly used metaphors for conscience include the "voice within" and the "inner light". It is a concept in national and international law, and is increasingly conceived of, as applying to the world as a whole, it has motivated numerous notable acts for the public good and has been the subject of many prominent examples of methods of self-expression
The idea that what one would believe is the sense of right and wrong that governs a person's thoughts and actions further thought has me wonder about the nature of man being in regulation of one's actions in conformity to this sense  that it’s to guided universal faculty of moral insight  as by inducing  a feeling of guilt or anxiety about an unkind action in   regard to truth and justice  as one sees it in what they believe that’s  reasonable  and fair. Thou I have researched history and religious beliefs of many cultures I know the actions of so many wrong doing have clouded and even inhibited man’s growth the most important is self-knowledge
In the literary traditions of the Upanishads, Brahma Sutras and the Bhagavad Gita, conscience is the label given to attributes composing knowledge about virtues and vices but also good and evil, that a soul acquires from the completion of acts and consequent accretion of karma over many lifetimes. According to Adi Shankar a in his Vivekachudamani morally right action as humbly and compassionately performing the primary duty of good to others without expectation of material or spiritual reward, helps "purify the heart" and provide mental tranquility but it alone does not give us "direct perception of the Reality". This knowledge requires discrimination between the eternal and non-eternal and eventually a realization in contemplation that the true self merges in a universe of pure consciousness.
In the Zoroastrian faith, after death a soul must face judgment at the Bridge of the Separator; there, evil people are tormented by prior denial of their own higher nature, or conscience, and "to all time will they be guests for the House of the Lie." The Chinese concept of Ren, indicates that conscience, along with social etiquette and correct relationships, assist humans to follow The Way (Tao) a mode of life reflecting the implicit human capacity for goodness and harmony.
Conscience also features prominently in Buddhism. In the Pali scriptures, for example, Buddha links the positive aspect of conscience to a pure heart and a calm, well-directed mind: "when the mind is face to face with the Truth, a self-luminous spark of thought is revealed at the inner core of ourselves and, by analogy, all reality." The Buddha also associated conscience with compassion for those who must endure cravings and suffering in the world until right conduct culminates in right mindfulness and right contemplation. Santideva (685–763 CE) wrote in the Bodhicaryavatara (which he composed and delivered in the great northern Indian Buddhist university of Nalanda) of the spiritual importance of perfecting virtues such as generosity, forbearance and training the awareness to be like a "block of wood" when attracted by vices such as pride or lust; so one can continue advancing towards right understanding in meditative absorption Conscience thus manifests in Buddhism as unselfish love for all living beings which gradually intensifies and awakens the mind to a purer awareness.
The Roman Emperor Marcus Aurelius wrote in his Meditations that conscience was the human capacity to live by rational principles that were congruent with the true, tranquil and harmonious nature of our mind and thereby that of the Universe: "To move from one unselfish action to another with God in mind. Only there, delight and stillness...the only rewards of our existence here are an unstained character and unselfish acts."
I could go on to other examples, all the ideas are complacent that with knowledge is truth the more mankind learns the more conscience he gains allowing better choices for moral actions there are still uneducated ways others think allowing there inability to either understand or there unwilling ability to see the truth or place proper judgment and act accordingly, Yet others believe that it’s a part of man’s soul and Gods tool to control human kind. I don’t believe that for a second our omnipotent leader has no reason to involve or control us lowly life forms .After further study I realized that it would seem that other life forms also show signs of conscience
So one would understand that to know oneself is to be aware of oneself in saying that truth must lead our conscience and must be dictated by our education and emotions.

                    "Nothing is more important than our word, it truly is our only value"

Sunday, January 20, 2013

Irresponsible

           Unreliable and untrustworthy, that’s the definition of irresponsible, " simple right?", One would think !  I was browsing around online and found this web site after spending many hours on it I feel like stupid has a new name towenhall.com the most uneducated information, of irresponsible journalism I have been exposed to thus far, almost everything is nonfactual it’s all bias opinion without any proof of substance, I believe if one is to write something for public viewing there should be something in truth, or at least point out.  ”Your reading fiction possible opinions only”. There are many such sites on the web, I have looked at many because of the things people share on Facebook.  So I go and check them out, I find it hard to separate the lies from truth, if it weren’t for my superior intellectual capacity I would fall in too the idealistic abyss of ignorance. I feel as thou everyone must really pay attention out there and if you can’t I would suggest going back to school and study ways of learning how to learn. Of course just plain commonsense should be enough but as you know rarely does anyone ever use commonsense anymore it’s all about finding information that backs up you opinions even if there wrong. I wrote an interesting blog a time ago about Opinions if you get a chance you should stop by and have a read ,I often enjoy writing and look for subjects that are mostly ignored or not obvious if you would like you can leave a thought with me and I would be glade to research it. Back to my thought, I realize that this new ability of online information can be overwhelming at times and very informative but also very unproductive as it shows that some haven’t the courage to be truthful and or deceptive for whatever reason they force false information as to confuse or entertain themselves by  inappropriately injecting and subjecting these unintelligent notations of lazy deceptive thoughts because they can so they do and then hide behind their walls and have no consequence for their actions or behavior I believe it’s up to each and every one of us that have the ability to think for ourselves to enlighten the people we interact with .Sharing information is about becoming more then we are and being truthful must always be first to become an enlightened species one must always remove the ideas of unnecessary emotional and illogical thoughts such as hatred , deceptive irresponsible opinions and behaviors. Also always be accountable for oneself in making sure you know best because you must be.

                          "Nothing is more important than our word, it truly is our only value"

Saturday, January 19, 2013

”Is Abortion Right Or Wrong?”


I was watching the news, and I read many articles and listened too many people about abortion I have read much about the subject and in different religions. “You know what I learned ?” that “WOW” people are very confused in this subject matter so I decided to look for information in numbers .Here’s the question: ”Is abortion right or wrong?” I have taken the number count of all abortions in the year of 2011 taking the population growth into account because all information is in percentages to population so as to get a straight number. I also dismissed the counts of other countries  because the numbers outside the US is very much higher  first I wanted to know how many abortions there were and what ages the woman were then I wanted to know how many woman/young girls died from giving birth then I wanted to know how many died from having abortion. Then by suicides from having the abortion and also how many woman died from suicide because they were pregnant I was absolutely astonished by the numbers and I ask “What is wrong with you people what are you thinking or can think at all? Here are the numbers, what you need to know before you think your right. Total abortions in 2011 was 333,924  9 years old to 25  years old, 112,260 woman died from labor 87,040 children died during labor in that count in addition to 14.659 children , 143,959 Pregnant suicides 268,962  Total death count for non-abortions .  613,680 lives just lost because of the idea that abortion is wrong and being pregnant was so devastating in some way they couldn’t see any way out that’s 279,756 more lives lost because. ”Why?” And one more number which really took me out was the suicides of the young boys who fathered some of the girls was an astounding 56,854 deaths. Final death count now is 670,534 VS 333,924 total difference 336,610. Conclusion: more lives could have been spared if people would mind their own business and if you can’t mind your own business then maybe you should help, Instead you preach abortion is wrong I am saving lives. You are not! Your costing lives . After looking at these numbers I must ask myself.  ” Is abortion right or wrong?” Shure, “Life is important right?” look at these numbers and ask yourself. My opinion is clear. I believe life is important and the greatest number is a shame and logic should dictate the needs of the many out way the needs of the few. And what about the abortions that did happen. “How many of those women /girls would have committed suicide as well?” I believe I will stand back and allow woman's choice  and help save lives if I can.
                             "Nothing is more important than our word, it truly is our only value"

Friday, January 18, 2013

Everyone Should Be Aware Of


I become aware of information that I believe everyone should be aware of. I fallow our government and ideology with intent. And I discovered by watching The Rachel Maddow Show The Republicans won a commanding 234-201 majority in the House of Representatives despite Democrats receiving more votes in congressional races overall. Analysts have pointed to redistricting as one reason (others include, for example, the concentration of Democratic voters in dense urban areas). This graphic shows disparities in popular vote versus seats won by state in 2010, when the old districts were in place, and 2012.                 
                              Here's the link
 
In the November election, a million more Americans voted for Democrats seeking election to the U.S. House of Representatives than Republicans.
 But that popular vote advantage did not result in control of the chamber. Instead, despite getting fewer votes, Republicans have maintained a commanding control of the House. Such a disparity has happened only three times in the last century.

                                                                    Here's the link


As for those who don't understand I will attempt to enlighten you .There's the proof now I will explain too you in plain English. Several state republicans reorganized the voting districts in such a way that no matter how you vote the electoral collage count will be republican. By hijacking the peoples votes and dismissing them so they don't count, Giving the Republicans majority in the House and the Senate and now they plan to implement this in a way to affect the Presidential outcome. We the people must not allow our voting rights too be dismissed, We must fight back. Our right to a fair election must not be compromised, So speak out and tell everyone you know and don't let this happen. 

                            "Nothing is more important than our word, it truly is our only value"

Thursday, January 17, 2013

Making Decisions

             Hello everyone I recently become aware some of you out there have the inability for decision making.May be I can help "Stop making decision's ".  "Right?" Most decisions can be put into two categories  normative or prescriptive,  it is the idea of being  concerned with identifying the best decision to take in practice, there are situations in which "best" is not necessarily the maximal, or optimum which may also include values in addition to maximum, but within a specific or approximateive range, assuming an ideal decision maker who is fully informed, able to compute with perfect accuracy, and fully rational. The practical application of this prescriptive approach is how people ought to make decisions this is called decision analysis, its  aimed at finding tools, methodologies and software to help people make better decisions. this is called a decision support system.
          Since people usually do not behave in ways consistent with axiomatic rules, often their own, leading to violations of optimality, Its here that I realized that there is a related idea of two things  there, called a positive or descriptive disciplines, So  by  attempting to describe what people will actually do. Since the normative, optimal decision often creates a hypotheses for testing against actual behaviors, the two fields are closely linked. Furthermore it is possible to relax the assumptions of perfect information, rationality and so forth in various ways, too  produce a series of different prescriptions or predictions about ones behavior, allowing for further thought  of this kind of decision making that occurs in practice. The idea of expected value is that, when faced with a number of actions, each of which could give rise to more than one possible outcome with different probabilities, the rational procedure is to identify all possible outcomes, So in determining their values positive or negative and the probabilities that will result from each course of action, and multiply the two to give an expected value. The action to be chosen should be the one that gives rise to the highest total of expected value
           However some of you cant even ,with all those factors taken into account, the  human behavior, again deviates greatly from the predictions of prescriptive decision making My brother said it best, Some don't need to think, it causes stupid to make believe they know something. So to be rational and not complaisant one should consider not making decisions based on stupid idea logistics .Get more educated and then maybe you will have the ability to decide that your opinion may have a value that is not less than the ability of a pea .
                               "Nothing is more important than our word, it truly is our only value"

Opinion

I often hear that people around me chattering about this and that. What we should do what others should do or not do and a word draws my attention "opinion". In general, it is a belief about matters commonly considered to be subjective, it is based on that which is less than absolutely certain, and is the result of emotion or interpretation of facts. . An opinion may be supported by an argument, although people draw opposing opinions from the same set of facts. Opinions rarely change without new arguments being presented. It can be reasoned that one opinion is better supported by the facts than another by analyzing the supporting arguments. In casual use, the term opinion may be the result of a person's perspective, or understanding, particular feelings, beliefs, and desires. It may refer to unsubstantiated information, in contrast to knowledge and fact based beliefs. After reading the definition of opinion I can see that opposition of ones belief in any formative idea can be altered by feelings thou I consider some points of view may or may not be the right point of view I do consider that maybe I could be wrong. Then again I do believe that I am right as I know I am certain that I am So to stay in my deep thought, As I sometimes consider my argument and become aware of the different sides of an opinion I must decline the respective out come of others point of view. If opinions influence others because of feelings and idea of experiences it is like teaching people around you to become less than they could become . And as I have stated before intelligent's is often compromised by emotion, So the interpretation of facts can become A misguided pattern of thought they become wrong ,So how is one to know without question that your right well lets consider not being emotional and you can become reasonable now add in the facts and as we see emotion on any opinion is needed so we consider analyzing what is perceived as the right thing to do and our answer becomes simple what maybe right for someone may not be right for another and allowing others the option of being wrong is to allow them to be wrong, Giving a opinion when asked is often ignored and thou you are right the opinion is still complacent with the emotion of other's so in what one may perceive to be correct is indeed wrong My conclusion is ,be right for your self ,for your self and leave other's alone to be right for them selves .even if you know they are wrong people cant have a change of thought unless they learn they are not right ,With great hope one would learn by there mistakes and be of some value .

                              "Nothing is more important than our word, it truly is our only value"

Saturday, January 12, 2013

" Who then has the right to choose?"

I have often heard that logic would dictate that the needs of the many out way the needs of the few or the one. Brings to me a question  "Who then has the right to choose for the many?" I often believed that logic to be the one truth that cannot be argued ,I find that talking to some that share an idea of the few are often misguided in the assumption that  there needs are more to them than the many .So  "Who then has the right to choose for the few?"

Taking all the study that I ponder about I find that those two Questions the  most intriguing. So I gave to it, my thought as a refreshing challenge to conclude that the only right answer would by definition be one human right and again A question "Why then is the right of humans any different than any non human and again "Who has the right too choose ?"My guess is that I will never get a real answer from anyone because  the needs of one self dictates the needs of one self and the WHO by question is oneself. So as I ponder the rights of humanity, And the thought of "United States Declaration of Independence, 1776". " We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness. Wow Another Question ! .Although the people who help change this law to include woman and other race's of humans. Who are we as a species to believe that we humans are above all life forms and the suggestion that our unalienable rights are so defining to being as Alien as we can become. By excluding all other life forms that are not human and again I ask " Who then has the right to choose?". So if we are to be  truly enlightened then as a species we must ask " Who then has the right to choose?". I believe "We must  hold these truths to be evident, that all species of life are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain alienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness". Because we know this truth ,It must be defended with out prejudice that this is the right of all life . " Who then has the right to choose?" Answer : We must all choose but  fairly there should never be a choice until humanity learns if that's even possible ,And if it were, there would be peace. But truth be told as a species there is no hope because humans believe  the needs of one self dictate the needs of one self.

                    "Nothing is more important than our word, it truly is our only value"

Friday, January 4, 2013

Many people that read my blog asked


Many people that read my blog asked me why I put this "Nothing is more important than our word, it truly is our only value" at the end of every blog. Well To lie is to deliver a false statement to another person which the speaking person knows is not the whole truth, intentionally. Thats the definition of a lie I believe no general rule on lying is possible, because anybody who advocated lying could never be believed there are no circumstances in which one may ethically lie. Even if the only way to protect oneself is to lie, it is never ethically permissible to lie even in the face of murder, torture, or any other hardship So Lying is a perversion of the natural faculty of speech, the natural end of which is to communicate the thoughts of the speaker. And I would suggest that when one lies, one undermines trust in society Some believe to Deceive only if you can change behavior in a way worth more than the trust you would lose, were the deception discovered (whether the deception actually is exposed or not)."Suggested that those who refrain from lying may do so only because of the difficulty involved in maintaining the lie. This is consistent with the general philosophy that divides people according to strength and ability; thus, some people tell the truth only out of weakness. Deceptive body language, such as feints that mislead as to the intended direction of attack or flight, is observed in many species including wolves. A mother bird deceives when it pretends to have a broken wing within any scenario where only "yes" or "no" answers are accepted, a person who we know is consistently lying would paradoxically be a source of truth if "yes" is sometimes the correct answer. There are many such paradoxes, the most famous being known as the liar paradox, commonly expressed as "This sentence is a lie," or "This sentence is false." The so-called Epimenides paradox ("All Cretans are liars," as stated by Epimenides the Cretan) is a forerunner of this, though its status as a paradox is disputed. A class of related logic puzzles are known as knights and knaves, in which the goal is to determine who, in a group of people, is lying and who is telling the truth. A recent study found that lying takes longer than telling the truth. Or, as Chief Joseph succinctly put it, "It does not require many words to speak the truth." In that statement I would assume that maybe I am just lazy Some biologists have argued that lying is an unavoidable feature of human behavior Interesting that brings many questions and I would think that true human behavior could be influenced by what children are taught and adult give witnessed let’s take a look at religion, The ultimate truth as most humans see it, in all cultures believe to lie is wrong.  I have witnessed it . "Is it  acceptable I ask?". "Why do people think its ok?" . There taught it is here take a look at my evidence
In The Old Testament and New Testament of the Bible both contain statements that God cannot lie and that lying is immoral (Num. 23:19, Hab. 2:3, Heb. 6:13–18). Nevertheless, there are examples of God deliberately causing enemies to become disorientated and confused, in order to provide victory (2 Thess. 2:11; 1 Kings 22:23; Ezek. 14:9):And for this reason God will send them strong delusion, that they should believe the lie (2 Thess. 2:11 NKJV) various passages of the Bible feature exchanges that assert lying is immoral and wrong but "Allowed?”(Prov. 6:16–19; Ps. 5:6), (Lev. 19:11; Prov. 14:5; Prov. 30:6; Zeph. 3:13), (Isa. 28:15; Dan. 11:27), most famously, in the Ten Commandments: "Thou shalt not bear false witness" (Ex. 20:2–17; Deut. 5:6–21); Ex. 23:1; Matt. 19:18; Mark 10:19; Luke 18:20 a specific reference to perjury.In other passages feature exchanges where lying seems to be seen as acceptable in extreme circumstances involving life and death. However, most Christian philosophers would argue that lying is never acceptable, but that even those who are righteous in God's eyes sin sometimes. And in Old Testament accounts of lying include: The midwives lied about their inability to kill the Israelite children. (Ex. 1:15-21).Rehab lied to the king of Jericho about hiding the Hebrew spies (Josh. 2:4–5) and was not killed with those who were disobedient because of her faith (Heb. 11:31).Abraham instructed his wife, Sarah, to mislead the Egyptians and say that she is his sister (Gen. 12:10). Abraham's story was strictly true —Sarah was his half-sister— but intentionally misleading because it was designed to lead the Egyptians to believe that Sarah was not Abraham's wife for Abraham feared that they would kill him in order to take her, for she was very beautiful. In the New Testament, Jesus refers to the Devil as the father of lies (John 8:44) and Paul commands Christians "Do not lie to one another" (Col. 3:9; cf. Lev. 19:11).In the Day of Judgment, liars will be punished in the lake of fire. (Rev. 21:8; 21:27).The Qur’an: Says that God (Allah), knows the secrets of all peoples' hearts and when somebody lies.Therefore according to the Qur'an, God cannot be fooled by lies and those who lie not only destroy their souls but the lie will be destroyed by the truth. Liars will be called to account on the Day of Judgment and God will not guide them. In at least three different places, Quran 45:7; 51:10 and 52:11, the Qur'an indicates that liars will suffer. The following are particularly noted for punishment: idolaters (liars against God), liars who disunite believers, those who lie that all good things are for themselves, hypocrites, those who lie against God when invited to Islam or who treat God's signs as falsehoods.In Buddhism Lying is forbidden by the fourth of the Five Precepts, the fundamental ethical training rules for all Buddhists. "For a liar who has violated the one law of truthfulness who holds in scorn in the hereafter, there is no evil that he cannot do."In Paganism: In Gestaþáttr, one of the sections within the Eddaic poem Hávamál, Odin states that it is advisable, when dealing with "a false foe who lies," to tell lies oneself.
In Zoroastrianism: Zoroaster teaches that there are two powers in the universe; Asha, which is truth, order and that which is real, and Druj, which is "the Lie". Later on the Lie became personified as Angra Mainyu, a figure similar to the Christian Devil, who was portrayed as the eternal opponent of Ahura Mazda (God).
Well In conclusion I instead of being like most others my decision it that. It's the kind of person I want to be. The fact that I make in my little statement is to show mostly what I expect from myself without concern for others,To teach by showing an example I believe my way is best for me I always listen to others and see that things happen. So I insist upon myself that to be the best of humanity I can be for its me to teach as I am a father it's my duty And because it's me teaching I will do the best I can because it's me doing it. So Yes I believe and so I do leave you with this. 
                         "Nothing is more important than our word, it truly is our only value"

Thursday, January 3, 2013

Pernicious


    I had received an email from someone where they told me that if my blog was worth any opinion at all was that my opinions were pernicious and undecided. And children can be influenced by what they read and I should not be blogging. “ In my confusion?” , there is nothing in my blogs that meet this opinion, If my readers have an opinion please do comment I have many thoughts how to answer this, for example I believe everyone has a right of free speech The right to freedom of expression is recognized as a human right under Article 19 of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights and recognized in international human rights law in the International Covenant on Civil and Political Rights (ICCPR). In the Article 19 of the ICCPR states that everyone shall have the right to hold opinions without interference" and "everyone shall have the right to freedom of expression; This right shall include freedom to seek, receive and impart information and ideas of all kinds, regardless of frontiers, either orally, in writing or in print, in the form of art, or through any other media of my choice". Article 19 goes on to say that the exercise of these rights carries "special duties and responsibilities" and may "therefore be subject to certain restrictions" when necessary "for respect of the rights or reputation of others" or "For the protection of national security or of public order, or of public health or morals”. Freedom of speech may be legally curtailed in some religious legal systems and in secular jurisdictions where it is found to cause religious offense, such as the British Racial and Religious Hatred Act 2006. So I am free to express myself and my opinions as I am free to do. Thank you very much for your email, I believe if you had any intelligent thought you would have commented on my blog instead of emailing me. I did note you obviously didn’t understand what you have read, (Oh there is a spell checker in most word pad programs.) Thou I share my thoughts I do believe In telling the truth if your unhappy about what you read, I would suggest finding something else to read, I have had a great audience and appreciate all of your comments I will lead with this as reflect what most people don’t see on a daily bias I do point out ideas that reflect the truths I witness and share with others.
 
                    "Nothing is more important than our word, it truly is our only value"  
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

Being Social



Social refers to a characteristic of living organisms as applied to populations of humans and other animals. It always refers to the interaction of organisms with other organisms and to their collective co-existence, irrespective of whether they are aware of it or not,
and irrespective of whether the interaction is voluntary or involuntary.AS I read this because I was asked why I am less social then most I decided to analyze why it is so. From my point of view human beings are intrinsically, necessarily and by definition social beings who, beyond being gregarious creatures, People cannot survive and meet their needs other than through social  co-operation and association. Their social characteristics are therefore to a large extent an objectively given fact,Taught from birth and affirmed by socialization processes; and,  in producing and reproducing their material life, people must necessarily enter into relations of production which are "independent of their will". So in contrast, It defines The human action as social if, by virtue of the subjective meanings attached to the action by individuals, One must take into account of the behavior of others, there for it is oriented in its course I find that most people's  personal preferences belief or understanding is limited by their closed mindless they only have the ability to believe there important part of being social is rather selfish they want to ,so they do. And the only thing that satisfies is the fact they are rewarded in some manner whether negative or positive, I find most conversation may start as a positive  experience most every time it ends with arragent halve truth statement, Do to the intelligent of the one, I was talking with I do find it very hard too communicate with those who rarely are aware of any kind of facts that one should know, So in being as I am I believe it better for my piece of mind that I be respectful and decline communications because when I am forced into talking to others who can't seem to ever learn that if your not using factual information Your lying I become rude and dismissive and become blunt which seem to start a negative atmosphere and so that's why I am not social.
    
                           "Nothing is more important than our word, it truly is our only value"